My late Brother, Sunduru

(This is a recollection of my late brother who died in 1946 at a young age of 32.
He was  a lively chap always up and doing . I remember him  returning from Port Trust  with   the sola hat (British Topi) and his coat neatly folded and kept over his arm. His two daughters Vasanta and Lakshmi were young children. In fact Chinnamanni  was barely 23). Some sad  remembrances:
Dear Chithya, thanks for the effort you took to make us happy. We are able to picture him in various moods .from what you write he appears a very warm , creative person with a great sense of humour. But you would have been a vaandu for him.Thanks Chithya once again. Love Lakshmi

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On Dec 15, 2013, at 9:15 PM, Vengrai Parthasarathy <vengrai@hotmail.com> wrote:

I got Vasantha’s ‘insatiable’ message.  My memory is slowly

fading.Anyway I shall try, but steel yourselves for repetitions.
*     Kudumi: Sundar  had a kudumi , which when unrolled  flowed
down and was the envy of women relatives. When, ultimately, it had to
go it was as if a requiem was called for. I think Pathachi or
someone took it to make a ‘switch’ out of it.  Sundar used to go
to Loyola college in a BSA cycle (which had no brakes) with a
cap on his head till the kudumi was sacrificed.
*     Golu time was a busy time for Sundar who  would personally
supervised the ‘construction of the steps which were suit cases,
boxes, trunks etc., carefully arranged. This used to be the case
till mother got regular steps made out of wood. Mother and
Sundar would get all the  carefully swaddled dolls from the
make-shift  loft in the iruttu room. And he would paint or repair
the damaged dolls before mother and he went to the govt.,
outlet  for buying new dolls which were added to the impressive
collection. We had perhaps one of the best golu arrangements
in Veda Vilas in the ‘Hall ULL’. A couple of times the golu was
arranged in the front hall–if there were no programmes of
Jagannatha Baktha sabha.
*     Sundar made special efforts for the golu side shows like
playground,circus, village scene,  dance show etc.,.
As teen-agers we (meaning I) would dress up and  check out the girls.
There is one whom I remember  even now! (hope Ruks does
not see this!) In fact one of his creations was a miniature
VedaVilas–made with cardboard, tamarind glue (made by
an old lady called Thayakka, Pachachi’s mother in law).
*     In 1942 there was mass evacuation from Madras and we moved
to Tanjore where we stayed i ( I remember) Ganapathi Nagar.
Chinna Manni was also with us.But before leaving mother had a trench
 dug in the iruttu roomand transferred trunks and vessels and sundries
of value and got it cemented . This was dug up when we returned from Tanjore.
*      Sundar was working in the Port Trust and mother urged him
repeatedly to come away from Madras. Instead of leaving the
job Sundar thought he would  grew a beard,,which he did.
And  got a certificate from Dr.Rama Iyengar. It did not work and
on the suggestion of  the British CMO’s P.A. he put Rs.16/ in an
envelope and dropped it into an open drawer,which was kept open only for
 this purpose.. He got one month’s leave.  Soon
the emergency eased and he went back to work.
    If I have any more items I shall get back.
                                 Babou

About Vengrai Parthasarathy

A profile of Vengrai Parthasarathy (from Sahitya Akademi): Mr.V.V. Parthasarathy (Vengrai) the author is 88+ years old.He graduated from the Madras University and stayed on to complete his Law degree in the same Uiversity. Again in that University, he did a two-year course in International Law and Constitutional Law under late Professor C.H.Alexandrowicz. He had also done a course in Mass Communitations . Mr. Parthasarathy has had his professional career in the Public Relations, all of them in Public sectors like Indian Airlines, State Trading Corporation,Bharat Electronics and lastly in the Bharat Heavy Electricals, Hyderabad from which he retired. Over the years Mr. Parthasarathy has published several rticles in a variety pf Dailies and Periodicals, including The Hindu, The Statesman,The Hindustan Times, the Indian Express and The Indian Year Book Of International Affairs.Over a hundred of them have been embedded in the Vengrai.com Mr. Parthasarathy has published two books One titled THIRUPPAVAI published by the Ramakrishna Mission and a book titled SELECT HYMNS FROM THE DIVYA PRAPANTHAM published by the renowned Sahitya Akademi. He is now a retired Author who has settled down in USA with his two children, son VijayParthasarathy married to Hema, ( a Dentist) and daughter Rohini married to Partha Mandayam, a Computer Scientist, —besides grandchildren.

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