Venky–my brother-in-law (machAn)

 

SHAKE HANDS WITH VENKY

                                                      Vengrai Parthasarathy

     Venky ?  There is only one Venky in San Diego, the one and only. He is M.C. Venkatesh. M stands for Mandayam and C for Chakravarthy.

      Venky is a Malleswaram lad, the only  son of late M.C.Sampathiyengar, noted Chief Engineer of Karnataka. He obtained his Civil Engineering Degrees from BMS College and Masters in Structural Engg. in USA. After a short stint in the Madras PWD,  he returned to design and build several  Water Towers  scattered all over  Bangalore for Gammon India. He recalls with nostalgia his younger days in and around  Sampige Road where he had many friends and relatives. His heart is still there, in his favorite restaurants and eateries and haunts.

      Like many young men of his generation, he was bitten by the America bug. Those were days when one could get a visa  to UK and USA without even standing in the queue. Venky said hastala vista  to Malleswaram. It was a great leap forward but he calls it a hop, step and jump. First, he  hopped  into London (to get a glimpse of the Westerns ways)  and  then took a calculated step into Toronto (to test the Pacific  waters)   before jumping into the California milieu, He has been with General Atomics ever since. Even after he retired they recalled him for there were not many with his specialization  in areas like Magnetic Levitation  

     I saw an issue of UPDATE , the house magazine of GA in his home. There was this item about a patent conceived by Venky and another. He has several such patents to his credit,  and when nudged he started in  right earnest to explain the U.S. Patent on “Modular Guides for a Magnetic Levitation Vehicle for a Guideway  module”. It was all mumbo-jumbo to me. Catch me listening to a technical harangue. Luck came in the form of a call for him from Meera. She didn’t know why I was thanking her but let me move on. Meera is a software professional of the top order and she would have gone places but for her desire to stay on in San Diego.  She had spent some months in USA  even  before her marriage, on a  scholarship  for Outstanding Students. ( A few years back their sons  staged a humorous  Play by the side of the swimming pool in their spacious house. In it, Meera  rejects suitor Venky on all scores  but perks up and readily gives her consent on knowing that he is  from U.S.A!). 

     The Venkys  have two sons, both of them brilliant MIT graduates, well-married   and well-settled in life. (Here is a conundrum: If Gandhiji  is the Father of the Nation, Venky’s peripatetic  younger son  Mukund is the great-grand-son-in-law of the Nation!). Sridhar, the U.S. born elder guy, who is trying to reverse the brain-drain trend , is a top-gun in  a French firm in Chennai. He has three sons whom the Venkys adore  and dote on and and take every opportunity to visit Chennai to be with them and enjoy their pranks.

      Venky is a soft spoken but focused  person . When he wants to get something done he goes for it and does not rest till it is done. He is a family man  and being gregarious by nature , he likes to visit friends and enjoys company. He is a great traveler having visited most countries  of the world.  He keeps some memento from each place.

     The essential side of the man is his generous, altruistic impulses.  In a world of Takers, he is a Giver. He, his wife Meera   and her father Mr.MNK, are active adherents  of the Yathiraja Jeeyar Mutt. They have given  and also collected significant donations for the construction of the Community Hall and Shradha  Bhavan  in Malleswaram.

    Venky has initiated a number of  micro-credit  projects  in Karnataka involving lakhs of Rupees for helping the poor to stand on their own feet rather than on doles which are often frittered away. Solar pumps for villages, Computers for schools,  microscopes and dialysis machines for hospitals ,fibre glass boats (for Tsunami victims)… the list goes on and on. He has initiated such  projects not only in India but in many  other countries  in the African continent and south Asia. He says “ The problems  of the poor are local and personal. They simply do not know how to organize their lives. Local leaders show alacrity when approached with plans to make small community groups to become   self-reliant. No one person can solve all the problems in India or anywhere else but one can at least try to mitigate suffering to the extent of his or her ability” says Venky. He ensures that  financial  assistance is  invested,  to give self-helping  means of  income not charity to people. Accountability  and periodic monitoring, which he insists on,  ensures judicious  use of the funds.  A sense of  religious duty and Noblesse oblige, is what drives him

      Venky is constantly trying to reconnect with Malleswaram. Time and absence have brought about a disconnect and he manages to arrange  re-unions with those  of his friends who are still around in Bangalore. He is a good man, a fine friend and affectionate brother to his sisters who are  in and around  San Diego. In fact he was responsible for bringing them to USA in the first place. To keep the ‘Malleswaram’  flavour  going in his life ,  Venky gets  Koorgalu,  and Kodubale   now and then  from a particular  Malleswaram  shop. He likes the good things of life, good food,   good harattai  sessions and an all-night  game of cards. Meera, like all wives,  is his benign Controller of Calories.     This good soul brings good cheer wherever he goes. May his tribe increase!   

About Vengrai Parthasarathy

A profile of Vengrai Parthasarathy (from Sahitya Akademi): Mr.V.V. Parthasarathy (Vengrai) the author is 88+ years old.He graduated from the Madras University and stayed on to complete his Law degree in the same Uiversity. Again in that University, he did a two-year course in International Law and Constitutional Law under late Professor C.H.Alexandrowicz. He had also done a course in Mass Communitations . Mr. Parthasarathy has had his professional career in the Public Relations, all of them in Public sectors like Indian Airlines, State Trading Corporation,Bharat Electronics and lastly in the Bharat Heavy Electricals, Hyderabad from which he retired. Over the years Mr. Parthasarathy has published several rticles in a variety pf Dailies and Periodicals, including The Hindu, The Statesman,The Hindustan Times, the Indian Express and The Indian Year Book Of International Affairs.Over a hundred of them have been embedded in the Vengrai.com Mr. Parthasarathy has published two books One titled THIRUPPAVAI published by the Ramakrishna Mission and a book titled SELECT HYMNS FROM THE DIVYA PRAPANTHAM published by the renowned Sahitya Akademi. He is now a retired Author who has settled down in USA with his two children, son VijayParthasarathy married to Hema, ( a Dentist) and daughter Rohini married to Partha Mandayam, a Computer Scientist, —besides grandchildren.

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